A–Z Guide
Plain‑English terms, safety tips and etiquette for meeting couples and singles worldwide.
A
- Aftercare — Providing emotional and physical support after intense activities to ensure well-being.
- Airtight — All orifices simultaneously filled by different partners for fullness and intensity.
- Alpha Male — Dominant male exhibiting leadership and commanding respect in social or sexual dynamics.
B
- Baby swinger — Newbies exploring and learning the ropes of the swinging lifestyle.
- Bareback — Sexual intercourse without the use of a condom.
- Boundaries — Personal limits defining acceptable behavior in relationships or encounters.
C
- Bull — Dominant male engaging with another's partner with consent or encouragement.
- Cuckold — Person deriving pleasure from watching their partner with others.
- Compersion — Joy from seeing a partner's pleasure in non-monogamy.
D
- Deadpool — Euphemism for double penetration in a playful twist.
- DP — Double penetration in vagina and anus simultaneously.
- DTF — Down to Fuck, indicating readiness for sexual activity.
E
- Eiffel Tower — Position with female penetrated from behind while performing oral.
- Ethical Non-Monogamy — Consensual relationships with multiple partners prioritizing respect.
- Exhibitionism — Gratification from exposing body or activities to others.
F
- Facial — Ejaculation on the face as a sexual finish.
- Full swap — Couples trading partners including intercourse.
- FWB — Friends with Benefits, casual sex without romantic commitment.
G
- Gangbang — One individual with multiple partners simultaneously.
- Ghosting — Disappearing without communication; take as rejection.
- Gloryhole — Hole for anonymous sexual activity.
H
- Hall pass — Permission for solo sexual activities with others.
- Hard swap — Full-on sexual escapades with another couple.
- Hotwife — Wife indulging in extramarital adventures with consent.
I
- It’s About to Go Down! — Catchphrase signaling start of steamy escapades.
J
- Join Free — Most members start with a free account to explore safely.
K
- Key party — Keys in bowl to randomly select partners.
- Kink — Unconventional sexual preferences or fantasies.
L
- Lifestyle — Term for swinging community and practices.
M
- Manicorn — Rare single male who respects couple dynamics.
- MFM — Male-Female-Male encounter with woman central.
- Monogamish — Mostly monogamous with occasional exploration.
N
- Newbie swinger — Beginners exploring the swinging lifestyle.
- No-kissing rule — Boundary prohibiting kissing for emotional detachment.
- Non-monogamy — Relationships with multiple partners consensually.
O
- Open relationship — Consensual non-monogamy with outside partners.
- Oral sex — Genital stimulation using mouth and tongue.
- OPP — One Penis Policy limiting male partners.
P
- Pansexual — Attracted to people regardless of gender.
- Parallel play — Couples playing separately in close proximity.
- Polyamory / Poly — Multiple romantic partners with emotional attachments.
Q
- Quick Facts — Short profile highlights (location, interests, boundaries).
- Questions First — Ask about expectations before proposing a meetup.
R
- Reclamation sex — Reconnecting sex after partner's external play.
- Red flag — Warning sign of potential issues in interactions.
- Regulars — Frequent attendees building community familiarity.
S
- Same Room No Swap (SRNS) — Playing in same room without swapping.
- Soft swap — Activities excluding intercourse with others.
- Swinging — Swapping partners for consensual sexual escapades.
T
- Taking one for the team — Engaging unattracted partner for group benefit.
- Threesome — Sexual encounter involving three individuals.
- Throuple — Three people in a committed relationship.
U
- Unicorn — Single female open to couples.
- Unicorn hunting — Couples seeking rare single females.
- Upside down pineapple — Secret signal indicating swingers.
V
- Vanilla — Conventional, non-kinky individuals or activities.
- Verification — Confirming identity through references or photos.
- Voyeurism — Pleasure from observing intimate activities.
W
- Well-endowed — Having a larger than average penis.
- Wife poacher — Attempting to lure another's female partner.
- Wingman — Partner assisting in attracting playmates.
X
- XO (Hugs & Kisses) — Friendly sign‑offs some members use.
- Explicit Content Policy — Follow site rules and local laws at all times.
Y
- Your Pace — Move as slow or fast as you want — your comfort first.
- Yes/No/Maybe Lists — A simple way couples align preferences.
Z
- Zero Pressure — No obligation to meet or continue; consent can be withdrawn any time.
- Zones — Personal comfort zones — expand only if and when you want to.