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Couples and singles who are open to more. Over 16,000 members – free to join, free to verify, and you talk first and meet when it suits you both.

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The guide

The lifestyle, chapter by chapter

What swinging actually involves, in plain words – worth reading before you join, not after.

01 – What swinging is

Swinging is couples, and some singles, having sexual or social experiences with other people – openly and by agreement. Both partners know and both say yes, and the relationship at home stays at the centre of it. That consent is the line between swinging and cheating.

02 – Soft swap or full swap

The two terms you will see most. Soft swap generally means anything short of full sex with someone else; full swap includes it. Couples draw the line in different places, so profiles say which they are open to – and it is always worth asking what someone means by it.

03 – Starting as a couple

Talk before you do anything else. Agree what is on and off the table, whether you want the same room or separate rooms, and how either of you can call a stop at any point. On Swinging Site you join together, on one couple profile, and say what you are both open to.

04 – Single women and single men

Singles are part of the lifestyle too. A single woman who joins a couple is often called a unicorn. Some couples look for a single man, and their profiles say so – which is why reading a profile properly comes before sending a message.

05 – Staying safe

Meet somewhere public first, tell a friend where you will be, and agree your limits before the evening rather than during it. On the site, look for the ID-verified badge – verification is free for every member – and know that moderators can confirm someone is who they say they are with a live video check, no documents needed.

Reference

The words you'll see

Profiles use shorthand. Here is what it usually means – and when in doubt, ask the person.

Soft swap
Anything short of full sex with someone other than your partner. Couples draw this line in different places, so ask.
Full swap
Includes full sex with other people, by agreement.
Same room
Everyone plays in the same room, often with partners in sight of each other.
Separate room
Couples split up and play apart, then come back together.
Unicorn
A single woman who joins a couple.
Hotwife
A woman in a couple who has sex with others, with her partner's encouragement.
Cuckold
A partner who enjoys their partner being with someone else, sometimes watching.
Throuple
Three people in a relationship together, rather than a one-off meet.
Play party
A private party where sex between guests is expected and agreed.
Vanilla
Anyone outside the lifestyle – or sex without anything extra.

How it works

From profile to first meet

  1. Make your profile

    Join as a couple, a single woman or a single man, and pick what you are open to. It's free.

  2. Get verified

    A free ID check puts a badge on your profile, so people know you are real.

  3. Browse and match

    Look through members and your daily match suggestions, and read profiles properly.

  4. Talk, then meet

    Message first and agree your limits. Free members send a few messages a day and can always reply to VIP members.

Members

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Before you join

Is it free to join?

Yes. A free profile lets you browse, get daily match suggestions, send a limited number of messages a day and reply to any VIP member. Unlimited messaging, advanced search and private group chats come with VIP.

Is Swinging Site only for couples?

No. Single women and single men join too, and every profile says who that member wants to meet.

Can we join as a couple?

Yes – there's a couple profile, set up once for the two of you.

How do I know someone is real?

Look for the badges. Members can verify their ID for free, do a live video check with a moderator, or have their profile validated by our team without sending documents.

What does VIP add?

Unlimited messages, seeing everyone who likes you, filters for distance, experience and what people are open to, and private group chats for up to 50 people – handy for planning a party discreetly.

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