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For couples

Swinging, together.

Join as a couple, on one profile. Agree what you are both open to, then meet other couples – or a single woman or man – when it suits you both.

One couple profile · set up together · adults only

Before you start

First, the talk.

Have this conversation before you make a profile – not on the night.

  1. Why you want to try it

    Say it out loud, both of you. Curiosity, a fantasy, something new together – any reason is fine, as long as you both know it.

  2. What's on and off the table

    Kissing? Touching? Full sex with someone else? Agree it in detail, and treat anything you have not agreed as a no.

  3. Soft swap or full swap

    Soft swap usually stops short of full sex with others; full swap doesn't. Pick a starting point – you can change it later, together.

  4. Same room or separate rooms

    Some couples want to see each other; some prefer to play apart and meet up after. Decide before you meet anyone.

  5. How either of you can stop

    Agree a word or a signal that ends things, no questions asked – and honour it every time.

  6. How you will talk afterwards

    Set aside time the next day to say what you liked and what you didn't, and adjust your rules if you need to.

Who couples meet

Another couple

The classic swap: two couples, everyone agreed. VIP filters narrow it down by distance, experience and what people are open to.

A single woman

Often called a unicorn. Profiles say who each member wants to meet, so read hers before you message.

A single man

For a threesome, or for hotwife and cuckold play. Look for the ID-verified badge, and agree the rules with him before you meet.

On Swinging Site

What you get as a couple

One couple profile
Set up once, for the two of you, with what you are both open to.
Free ID verification
A badge on your profile shows people you are genuine.
Your town, not your address
Other members see your nearest town or city – never where you live.
Filters
With VIP, search by distance, experience and what people are open to.
Private group chats
With VIP, plan a party or a meet with up to 50 people in one discreet place.

Members

Couples and singles you could meet

Couples

Women

Men

Couples ask

Do we need one profile or two?

One. A couple profile is set up once, for the two of you.

What if one of us wants to stop?

Then you stop. Agree a word or a signal before you meet, and honour it every time – on the night or afterwards.

Do we have to meet anyone?

No. You can browse and chat for as long as you like, and only meet when you are both ready.

Will anyone see where we live?

No. Other members see your nearest town or city, not your address.

Can we meet a single person rather than a couple?

Yes – a single woman or a single man. Their profiles say whether they are looking for a couple.

Ready together?

Meet couples near you.

Set up your couple profile free