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For single women

On your terms.

Meet couples, men or women – when you want, how you want. You decide who you talk to, what you share and when you meet.

Your rules · your pace · adults only

You are in charge

Your rules, from the first message.

  • You choose who you reply to. Read a profile before you answer anyone – there is no obligation to reply.
  • Block anyone in a tap. Once blocked, they can no longer contact you or see you.
  • Your town, not your address. Other members see your nearest town or city, never where you live.
  • Explicit images stay blurred. Possibly explicit pictures carry a warning until you choose to look.
  • A free badge says you're real. Verify your ID or do a short video check, and people know who they are talking to.

Meeting a couple

The word you will hear: unicorn.

In the lifestyle, unicorn means a woman on her own who plays with a couple. Couples hoping to meet one usually say so on their profile, along with what they are open to.

Talk to both of them

Make sure both partners are in the conversation and both want this – not one of them speaking for the other.

Set the rules with both

What is on and off the table, same room or separate, and how anyone – you included – can stop at any point. Agree it before you meet.

You are a guest, not a gap to fill

If a couple's rules do not suit you, say no. There are other couples, other single members, and no reason to settle.

Before you meet

Meeting on your own

  1. Meet them together, in public, first. A drink in a bar before anything else, so you meet both of them where it is easy to leave.
  2. Tell a friend where you will be. And when you expect to be home.
  3. Keep your own transport. So leaving is always your decision.
  4. Keep your address to yourself until you are completely comfortable – a hotel is a common first meeting place for that reason.
  5. Ask for a video chat. A few minutes on video before you meet tells you a lot – and anyone serious will not mind.
  6. Trust the feeling. If something is off, leave, then block and report them.

Members

People you could meet

Couples

Men

Women

Women ask

Is it free for me to join?

Joining is free. A free profile lets you browse, send a few messages a day and always reply to VIP members; VIP takes the limit off.

Can I say I only want to meet couples?

Yes. Your profile says who you want to meet, and members can see it before they message you.

What is a unicorn?

The lifestyle's word for a single woman who joins a couple. You will see it on profiles – it is a compliment, not a job description.

What if a conversation gets uncomfortable?

Block them – they can no longer contact you or see you – and report them from inside the site.

Will anyone know where I live?

No. Your profile shows only the nearest town or city to you – your home address is never on it.

Whenever you are ready

Meet the people you choose.

Free to start · leave whenever you like